Suicide Is Never An Option

Friday, September 7, 2018

A character trait of the end-times is that Christians are being shamed into silence about truths that should be boldly proclaimed. And too often that silence is caused by the misuse of Jesus’ command “Judge not, that you be not judged” (Matt. 7:1), which contextually is hypocrisy. In other words, we have no business judging another if we ourselves are guilty of the same sin. In that context Jesus concludes with “Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye” (Matt. 7:5).

Being born again and made alive in Christ, God commands Christians to judge “all things”. Many would say that’s not Christian, but that’s because men have spun God’s Word in a way they ought not, because God said “he who is spiritual judges all things, yet he himself is rightly judged by no one” (1 Cor. 2:15). In this context today’s Letter addresses the issue of suicide.

Suicide is the cause of death being reported with alarming frequency…especially in the Church. It’s increasingly the cause of death among pastors and those in ministry. Why? There should be a great outcry against this work of Satan, but the Church is largely silent. And why is suicide cast by many as a sickness absent of responsibility and even made to appear as a viable way to God as if its results were eternal life? As with every matter of life, the Bible is not silent on suicide.

While many proverbially sweep this under the carpet, we must not be silent, but speak God’s truth. Love for Christ and fellowman cannot be silent about the reality of suicide. Again, God is not silent on this and neither should any Christian, pastor, teacher or layperson, but boldly speak the truth that lovingly, warns, instructs and leads people from erroneously thinking that suicide is an option that leads to God and eternal life, because suicide is never an option.

Now, to be clear, I am not teaching here that suicide by the mentally retarded or those in mental institutions having a documented history of psychiatric mental illness are spiritually responsible for their actions. Rather, I refer to those in the Church professing faith in Christ, which creates a renewed mind of hope, peace, and love for God, family and fellowman, who yet commit suicide.

What brings this to the forefront, again, is a 08/27/2018 article by CBN News headline saying: “California Church Shocked After Pastor Commits Suicide” – “Lead Pastor Andrew Stoecklein died Saturday after taking his own life. The pastor left behind three young children and his wife.” Now, while we grieve and pray for the living in this tragedy, we must allow God’s Word to have the supremacy lest anyone be deceived by evil spirits of depression, anxiety and hopelessness.

God says to His saints, “You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, [evil spirits] because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world” (1 John 4:4). Therefore, “your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit…and you are not your own” (1 Cor. 6:19).

First, suicide is self-murder. And God said that “no murderer has eternal life abiding in him” (1 John 3:15). Now, we must “let God be true but every man a liar” (Rom. 3:4). God is the Author and Finisher of our lives, not we of ourselves. Our breath is borrowed from God, and we do not have authority to decide when our last breath is drawn. But some, over time, by deceiving spirits have become their own god, not content with faithfully seeking the Creator’s will, purpose and plan for their life in the midst of particularly painful struggles of life.

Secondly, suicide is selfish, not considerate of the lack of love, teaching, instruction, provision and caring for the family left behind. Yet, Pastor Andrew’s wife, Kayla, wrote on her Instagram, “Last night, the love of my life, the father of our children and the pastor of our incredible church took his last breath and went to be with Jesus”. Really? What does God say? “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever” (1 Tim. 5:8). Suicide selfishly rejects all familial relationships.

Third, suicide serves the purposes of Satan who, “does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy” (John 10:10). Whether it’s the killing of our fellowman made in the image of God, or one’s own self, be it by war, murder or suicide, these all serve Satan, the god of this present age.

Fourth, suicide disregards and rejects the vital truth that our bodies are the dwelling place, the habitation of, and temple of the Holy Spirit. This is very important, for God said, “Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? If anyone defiles [meaning, “destroys”] the temple of God, God will destroy him. For the temple of God is holy, which temple you are” (1 Cor. 3:16–17). While many reject this truth, it’s God’s promise.

Neither depression, anxiety nor fear are of God. Salvation faith is a matter of “righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Rom. 14:17). Christians are people with salvation faith in the Lord Jesus, the God of all peace, hope and confidence. From ancient times the Holy Spirit said, “You [God] will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for in YAH, the Lord, is everlasting strength” (Isa. 26:3–4). Our mind being “stayed” on the Lord is entirely our choice. And our choices have consequences.

Kayla Stoecklein said, “Please pray for me and the boys. I don’t know how I am going to face this, I am completely broken, lost, and empty. Never in a million years would I have imagined this would be the end of his story.” Please join me in praying for the living Stoecklein family.

Here’s an article referencing suicides by many pastors, as the Church remains largely silent: Suicide is no stranger to the unbelieving, unsaved, hopeless world. But a pastor and/or professing Christian? Really? What message does pastoral suicide send the lost world except to say that Christians really have no more hope and reason to live than the unbeliever? But we do! We have hope in Christ and rejoice in the victory of the cross! We celebrate Jesus’ resurrection, for if we remain faithful, “at the last day” (John 6:40) we too shall be raised to eternal life!

Silencing the truth of suicide, and Jesus’ testimony for the now-present end-times before us will only exacerbate and further weaken the witness of the organized Church. Now is not the time for silence, but time to boldly love, warn, instruct, defend and teach the Word on everything facing the end-time Church, otherwise its great commission also falls silent.

Marlin J. Yoder

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I'm a non-denominational ordained minister, and have written for many years and teach the truths of Jesus Christ with an emphasis on the end-times. This on-line and in-person ministry to which God called me helps many people to know the truths of Christ rather than traditions of men which make "the word of God of no effect" (Mark 7:13).


  1. I am sorry Marlin for taking this long to respond to your article concerning suicide. Let me say at the outset that your post was the best and most biblically accurate teaching as it pertains to suicide that I have read or heard. You are absolutely correct when you say this topic has been either inaccurately taught or simply has not been taught by so-called pastors and teachers. It is a shame when pastors affirm a suicide loved one’s wishes that the individual has gone to heaven and will be in eternity with Jesus.

    Your points that you made on suicide were and will remain an excellent source of help in approaching the subject in the future with whomever. Of course when we approach any subject with love and more concern for the other individual than for our own agenda, love will never fail. But, the truth of God’s Word must be proclaimed even in difficult situations and circumstances.

    Of course, many religious leaders are concerned about their position rather than bible convictions and therefore, false teaching will remain a high priority on many mainstream church leaders agenda. And yet, Jesus declared, “If the world hates you, it hated Me before hating you.” And Paul proclaimed, “Those who desire to live godly [by stating the truth concerning any subject] will suffer persecution.”

    But we are a society who does not want to associate suffering and or persecution with Americanized Christianity. For the most part we want our religious lives to be well organized and extremely accommodating to outside influences so that we are not looked at as being intolerant or over zealous for the things of God. Therefore, many religious but not spiritual leaders have sown their web of deception concerning the biblical reality of suicide, the timing of the rapture, the demonic false doctrine of once saved always saved, and other compromising evil traditions.

    Marlin, thank you for stating so clearly that suicide among Christian believers should be seen as and considered as self-murder. That certainly gives us something to consider! Thank you for reminding us that suicide is selfish. Thank you for your revealing the Satanic puppet-like effects that suicide creates in the wake of its eternal destruction of a life and the ramifications of those left behind.

    And finally, thank you Marlin that you have declared the truth concerning suicide as an act of rebellion and sin against God and His Holy Spirit that He has placed within us as an earnest down payment of our awaited for salvation. Suicide is by no means a biblical method of enduring to the end! Suicide is never a way around our being commanded by Jesus to abide in the vine, to take up our cross [a symbol of suffering and surrender] and in obedience to Jesus deny ourselves the dis-obedient short cut to death by way of suicide.

    Now, for all those who are victims to loved ones choosing suicide rather than their submitting to God’s will, the Lord knows the righteous and the sufferings of His people. He wants to use you and me as left behind victims to be salt and light in this darkened by sin and rebellion world. He wants to enable us by our studying to show ourselves approved as workers who are not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, but who rightly understand and are able to rightly communicate the truth concerning suicide and whatever issue has clouded people’s better judgment.

    Thank you Marlin for opening the dialog pertaining to suicide. You are so right when you claim that now is not the time to be silent, but the time to boldly love one another enough to tell others the truth rather than refraining from hurting their feelings.

    We must warn, instruct, and become and remain obedient to the Word of God over and above man’s earthly traditions and false philosophies. We must take the whole armor of God’s Word and learn to use the spiritual weapons of our warfare that are not carnal, but are mighty to the pulling down of strongholds in our lives and in the lives of others in order to attempt to curtail the onslaught of suicide in these soon to become difficult end times.

    If we do not take a stand for biblical truth as present tense believers in Jesus and God’s Word, who in the world will? God help us to become and remain over-comers in and through the precious blood of Jesus and our true Christian testimony!
    In Him Always, Brother Mike…

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